There is a person who at birth was given up for adoption. She is raised by persons who are not her biological parents. These persons may be family or they may not be family. She sees all other children around her who have biological parents. As with all other young children, she thinks that she is the primary or first cause. If she has no biological parents then she is the cause. She grows up with this thought under the surface. This becomes her perspective so when she interprets the world this energy of her perspective becomes a factor. This energy enters her relationships and becomes the filter through which she sees all the other energies of the world.

From a quantum mechanics perspective this energy becomes a filter which only allows certain outcomes. The other outcomes literally cease to exist as possibilities. In another sense this perspective is like having a string of only a certain length and having no access to a variation in length. Therefore when it starts to vibrate it is limited in finding a string with which to resonate. The result is that she is attracted to certain relationships, and some of these have a tendency to become abusive. When they do so she clings to them for she fears abandonment. Even as she fears abandonment more strongly she attracts more of the same she is trying to avoid.

The way out requires a change in perspective. This is a literal change in the energy set-up which allows the possibilities of more and different outcomes. Looking at this from quantum mechanics it is important to see things as they really are.

One— All things are connected, and if so there is a connected energetic system. All is connected even if it appears separate and so it is not possible to be abandoned as the connection always exists.

Two— All outcomes are possible. Once this is realized a change in perspective is possible. In fact this perspective allows access to all outcomes. This is the equivalent of adding a multitude of strings of different lengths in our harmonic analogy. This allows one to create different experiences and different relationships.

As she changes this perspective her outcomes change. She no longer sees attraction only in those who would have an abusive relationship. Her life literally changes before her.